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The cornerstone of any psychic development or clairvoyant program teaches you the art of Grounding, Running Energy, Psychic Protection, and Neutrality (Being in the Center of Your Head). These powerful psychic tools, along with the sixth chakra (third eye) and your clairabilities are at the foundation of your psychic awareness and functioning.
Today, we learn about psychic development tool of Grounding to maintain spiritual equanimity and replenish your energy. You will begin to use Grounding to focus your creative life force energy to create for yourself.
Psychic Development: What is Grounding?
If you have ever wondered, “What is Grounding, anyway?” then this may provide some good awareness…
Grounding is a process of rooting and centering yourself. It’s an essential tool that will bring clarity, focus, and equanimity into your day, moment by moment. When you ground yourself, you’re calling back to you your own pure, positive essence. It’s a balancing tool that guides you to stand in your power, certainty and higher knowing. It is an essential tool as you begin to become in tune with your clairabilities and your Higher Self.
Any of us can get filled up with other people’s energy throughout the day. We’re easily influenced by other energies. In time, having used this tool consistently, you will start to realize when you’re out of your center and need to do some Grounding, because using these tools will increase your awareness in a big way.
It is akin to a pipe, tube or funnel. You release energy through this that is ready to be released, is not of you and/or no longer serves you. You might imagine your Grounding Cord as giant powerful waterfall, deep tree roots, a beautiful golden divine light or a giant thick rope.
Use your Grounding Cord, also called a Grounding Tube, at any time. It is one of your main psychic tools. You may also use it to Ground others when you see they are not in balance for some reason. Grounding others is the one psychic tool you may use to assist others without first gaining their permission. Remember you must have Grounded yourself before you do this. Change your Grounding Tube whenever it is old, worn out or not draining energies out quickly enough.
Keep your feet flat on the floor. Close your eyes, sit up straight, yet relaxed in your seat. Your palms should rest gently on your lap, facing up.
Affix a Grounding Cord from your first chakra located at the base of your spine. Let this Cord drop effortlessly to the center of the earth. Don’t try to find the center of the earth. Your higher self knows where this is. Trust that.
Your Grounding Cord should be as big around as your body and fit snug to your hips. Check that it is on ‘release’ and watch as all tension, doubt, self-sabotage, stress, anger, or fear leaves your body through this Cord. These are lower vibration energies and your Grounding Cord will drain out energy and programming that is not your own.
Travel up and down your entire Grounding Cord and check for tears, holes or weak spots. Bolster it where you need to if it feels necessary.
Write your name on the Grounding Cord and even put today’s date on it. This anchors it and helps to reinforce its presence and guidance.
Change your Grounding Cord whenever it feels old, worn out or not draining out quickly enough.
Remember to hug a tree, get your bare feet in the earth, dance or even meditate leaning against a tree to Ground yourself in your day! These simple tips will support you in spiritual and emotional balance, bring a deep sense of centering and enhance overall well being.
How Will I know the Psychic Development Tools Are Helping Me?
Since I started doing this regularly, I’ve begun to feel good and calm all the time, as if I were being programmed to think positively. Now when I hear a negative thought from anyone or myself, I think, “Where did that come from?” Or, if I feel tension or upset toward another I can calm myself and realize that that low energy emotion is not me—it’s coming from them or someone else. That is the beauty of these tools. You get so tuned into a higher vibration that when the lower self comes in, you can recognize it and say, “No more of that! I’m going back to being me.”
Until you establish this practice, it’s easy to not even realize how other people’s energy is affecting you. This is very true for us as a society. I see patterns of this over and over again. Several things are very prominent. People often think, “If that person would just do this, I would be happy.” They worry about what others think of them, or feel they have to agree with others. They’re giving up their power in the process. The Grounding process can help solve that problem, because when you’re grounding, you’re calling back your energy and letting go of everyone else’s. Nobody controls you, but you.
I release through my Grounding Cord and create a new one a couple of times a day. It’s important to break those energy cords and bonds, because people will tend to cord into you energetically without even realizing it, and that’s never good.
Use a divine golden light in spiritual practice, instead of a white light. White light tends to attract lower vibrational energies, because it attracts everything. A golden divine energy is more pure and more powerful.
Grounding Steps In Quick Summary
Keep your feet flat on the floor, your eyes closed, and be relaxed in your chair. Place your palms facing up on your lap.
Attach a Grounding Tube from your first chakra, which at the base of your spine. Drop it effortlessly to the center of the earth. Don’t try to find the center of the earth. Trust your Higher Self knows where that is.
Tug on your Grounding Tube to check that at is flowing and attached, if you need to. Travel up and down the entire grounding tube and check it for tears, holes or weak spots. Strengthen the Grounding Cord where you need to.
Widen your Grounding Tube to fit snug around your hips.
In your mind’s eye, put a date on your Grounding Cord, to affix it to present day, and set it on release.
Use it for draining out energy and programming that is not your own. See all that is not of you, and any lower vibration energy such as fear, worry, self-sabotage, doubt leaving through this Cord.
Grounding is an ongoing, constant process. It’s not something done once. Your ability to keep this in place throughout your days is essential.
An essential oil to support grounding? Yes! Grounding Essential Oil will support emotional relaxation. This powerful essential oil has been known to stabilize and calm people and even animals! Grounding Essential Oil supports those who may be making poor choices in relationships, work or home matters because they simply are in denial of their own true reality. If you or someone you know is feeling stuck, Grounding Essential Oil can help. Try using it on your pets who are either panicky, nervous or restless.
How to use Grounding Essential Oil:
Topical: Dilute 1 drop with 1 drop of olive oil and apply to the sacral chakra area.
Aromatic: Diffuse up to 30 minutes, 3 times daily.
I Want to Learn More about Essential Psychic Development Tools
There is much to learn about psychic phenomena and psychic protection, including the importance of the essential tools and exercises related to Grounding and Grounding Cords, like Neutrality, Running Energy and Staying the Center of Your Head. As a start, or as a refresher for the veteran, join Michelle in her psychic development courses here!
I hope this finds each of you well. As many of you know, I am well into authoring my first book. I’m so very excited to be sharing insights and guidance on the topic of psychic work, mediumship and controlled remote viewing. A portion of the book will also be devoted to aligning with your higher self and will include tips and tools designed to assist you in living the life you were intended.
I want to take this opportunity to share with each of you that I’ve decided to devote some of this book, and possibly a full chapter, to my clients. The work I do is successful and deeply fulfilling because of those of you I have had the good fortunate to assist using this amazing ability. So, I would like to invite any former clients to submit stories or insights about their reading/session.
This is not meant to be a brief testimonial but rather a more lengthy expression of how connecting with your loved one has impacted your life, what you may have learned, or any other details or inspiring story you just feel a desire to share. If you had a psychic reading, and you have some thoughts, insights, validations or life changing events you desire to be heard, these too are welcome.
There is not a guarantee that your story will be selected, however all submissions will be considered for publication in the book. You will be notified via email if your story will be included so please be sure to submit a valid email address.
If you are interested in sending in your story, please submit them through the Contact page at MichelleBeltran.com
There is a pervasive misconception that we have only one soul mate.
In reality, we will have many soul mates in our lifetime and throughout our journey. Some soul mate connections only occur briefly, while others are in place for most or all of our lives. Some are in-depth and rich, while others are seemingly simple or meaningless.
They all matter and have value.
There is never an encounter we are not meant to have – be it short, long or in-depth. We made an agreement before we arrived on Earth to live out our journey together and to shape our own soul growth.
Types of Soul Mates
1. Twin Flame – the other part or half of your soul
In most cases, your twin flame is not actually living and they do not experience human life at the same time as you. Rather, they are on the “other side” and are guiding and caring for you from there.
In some cases, this soul mate may indeed incarnate with you. When this happens, you will know this soul mate because the chemistry you share is highly charged. If you are apart from this person, there is very deep longing for them.
However, this person is not necessarily always a good match for you; the similarity is so immense that it makes for a chaotic relationship because you’re too alike. In addition, they generally reflect everything about yourself that you don’t like. To be compatible with this person, each must be very comfortable and at peace with their own higher self.
2. Companion – also known as “Kindred Spirit” or “Teacher Soul Mate”, who comes into your life for a particular reason and duration
They may be friends, teachers or mentors who have presented at particularly challenging times in your life and/or at a time when you may pursuing a very important goal. These soul mates are voices of encouragement and support. This soul mate could even be the person who appears briefly to help when your car breaks down, or that person who magically appears at just the right time to help you in moments of greatest need throughout your life.
3. Twin Souls – people with whom we share a close friendship and feel very comfortable and relaxed with
You have many prior lives with this person, and you will likely live many again with them. This soul mate connection is quite similar to the Companion Soul Mate, however the difference is the bond is stronger and longer. This relationship is often a close friend or family member. There is often a highly spiritual or even telepathic connection with this person, and you may at times feel you don’t even need to use words to communicate. You might also find that your life experiences parallel one another.
When you meditate, set the intention of the desire to meet your soul mate – ensuring that you state this specific intention out loud as a means of releasing it to the Universe. Learn to be aware of any signs, symbols and messages that manifest. They may come in your dreams, through your meditation, or when you least expect it.
2. Count your blessings
You cannot manifest anything into reality from a place of lack, sadness or giving attention to what is missing from your life. So, make lists each day of all the things you love, every thing from the warm socks on your feet, to your health and well-being.
3. Imagine your soul mate is present in your life now
For example, see yourself laughing at the dinner table with this person, traveling together or taking a walk. Say out loud, “I am in a deep-seated, loving relationship with a uniquely wonderful person. I am so happy.”
Whatever the right words are to you, say them. Then, recognize how it makes you feel as you imagine this and say the words you have chosen. Does it bring tears of joy? Chills of excitement? Wonderful! This is where the power lies – it is in how you feel and the intention you release to the Universe.
The Universe does not know the difference between thought and reality, so this exercise of seeing your soul mate in your life as if it were reality is incredibly powerful.
Don’t give up on meeting your soul mate, they really are out there waiting to meet you, help you, or share your life with you. They often come when least expected, however by setting your intention to the Universe, having an open heart, and being thankful for what you have, your souls will collide when they’re meant to.
Do you believe in soul mates, and if so, do you think we have more than one?
As the old saying goes, “It takes two to tango,” so simply desiring a relationship fix on your own may not be enough to salvage what’s been damaged. That said, by thoughtfully pursuing your partner and showing how you genuinely love him or her, you may be able to create inroads for better communication and understanding, not to mention healing, in the future.
Essential oil to support your relationship? Yes! Try the essential oil Lavender to assist in bringing in calming, relaxing and balancing energy both physically and emotionally. It’s a great companion during your relationship journey.
What’s Next? I Want to Attract My Soulmate
Life Coaching with Michelle! Michelle trained with globally recognized spiritualist, Deborah King, to integrate LifeForce Coaching techniques into her own programs. Through LifeForce Coaching, Michelle is now a certified life coach and will help you create harmony in all aspects of your life, teaching you how to connect with your own calling and deepest passions. Schedule your session today!
Mediums use their power to detect and communicate with spirits and those in the afterlife for the purpose of conveying specifically targeted information to a specific, living individual.
When thinking about psychic development, you can think of Mediums as Spirit Interactors serving as live, human interactors for spirits existing on the astral plane. Mediums serve as receptives for multiple types of energy emanating from the spirit world and/or the universal matrix. A Medium seeks out spirits on behalf of the living, and spirits seek out cooperative Mediums for delivering information to the living. Spirits also seek out Mediums in order to be revealed, become materialized, or influence a course of events.
Psychic or Medium Reading? What is the Difference?
In a psychic reading the intuitive generally works directly with spirit guides as well as their own higher knowing to receive information. You may receive guidance and advice regarding your past, present and future. You may also receive information pertaining to health, career, finances, love and relationships as well as guidance for your own spiritual growth and advancement.
In a medium reading the intuitive will link directly with the spirit world and your loved ones who have passed over, bringing any messages they have to you. In this reading you find answers you seek about the Other Side and your departed loved ones. These readings are a wonderful opportunity to understand and learn about the healing power of contact with the Hereafter. Through information received from spirit, you may also at times receive psychic information and guidance about your life. In a medium reading however, the distinction is that the information is presented by spirit.
Be mindful that all mediums are psychic, but not all psychics are mediums.
Why Do Our Loved Ones Come To Us In a Medium Reading?
Spirits come to us for many reasons. It may be simply to say hello, to guide us in our earthly issues and events or to assist in healing and closure of our grieving. I find that often spirit has come to offer an apology. In addition to choosing when, where, and with whom they will send messages through, spirit chooses why they come. It is our task, to listen with an open mind and hear their messages.
Psychic Development: How Can I Prepare for a Medium or Psychic Reading?
Sit quietly for a few moments, then tell the spirit you wish to contact that you intend communication. They already know, but tell them anyway.
Recall and think about past memories, smells, traits, events or places you traveled with your loved one.
Set the intention for a joyful, expectation-free session.
Be certain and confident that your loved one has heard you.
Please be sure you are in a quiet place for the reading where you will be uninterrupted.
What is an Evidential Medium?
An evidential medium will provide facts about your loved ones they could not possibly have known, such as how they passed, particular events, names, dates and special activities. Often times, specific clear and detailed memories will present. You will know it is your loved one the evidential medium is connecting with based upon the factual evidence presented.
Medium Readings: I Want to Here From My Loved One Now
You’ll want to be patient.
Please understand that spirit may take time to adjust to the Other Side. Think of it as that they are getting situated in a new home. They need time to adjust their passing in the same way that you do. Giving them this time to settle in assists them and makes the transition easier. Simply telling the universe and/or spirit that you are perfectly willing to wait for a time when they are ready to communicate helps them. You may want to request they show you a symbol when they are ready to come through. Also, remember that wanting to communicate with them too badly may hinder communication and the medium connection.
How Soon Can I Connect with My Loved One in a Medium Reading?
Spirit can communicate regardless of how long they have been on the other side. While some do communicate better than others, they all do have the ability to connect with you, whether they have passed one day ago, one year ago or 20 years ago. You may also notice in a reading that our loved ones often present with many of the similar personality traits and habits that they did while on earth in a physical body.
There is no language on the Other Side. Spirit communicates from a higher vibration and they are understood regardless of what language they spoke while living on earth. Language is merely an earthly way of communicating and for human sake.
What has spirit transcended to?
I have learned that spirits most certainly have come to know a more enlightened state and are more spiritually advanced having passed over to the Other Side. However, spirit is not all-knowing. They often retain much of their personality they had while on earth albeit with a new and profound level of awareness. It is not uncommon during a reading for spirit to present at an age much younger than when they passed. This is because we have the choice, having passed over, to appear however we desire. In addition, near the age of 30 was often an optimal age so many choose to revert back to appearing as they would at that time in their earthbound experience.
Psychic and Mediumship Readings and How Time Works
There is no time on the Other Side, at least to the extent that we know it. However in order to get some sort of glimpse, I have learned through readings with spirit, that things move at a much faster pace on earth. This is, in part, why we come to earth, because the growth is exponential. You might think of it like this: A blink of eye for spirit world is 8 months to you and I. So, in this light, it is a gift to be here on earth, as the growth is immense.
Mediumship Readings Provide Us With a Few More Things
What Do Our Loved Ones Desire for Us?
It is generally the intent of spirit to bring the core of important challenges and issues to the forefront. Sometimes, they desire to do this right away. This is because of an intense desire to bring healing and growth to their loved ones still living. They realize the value of resolving issues and not leaving things unsettled before our own passing. Spirit also understands the importance of unconditional love and that we are all connected. Remember that your prayers for you loved one go a long way. They benefit from this deeply and hear you.
Signs Relating to Our life lessons
While spirit generally comes with wonderfully insightful and profound healing messages, they will never provide information to the extent that they interfere with your life lessons and/or spiritual growth you were meant to incur. Please realize that a medium reading should not take the place of the grieving process. Some find that waiting one to two months after the loss of a loved one to schedule a reading is best.
Mediumship Readings Help You Connect with Your Loved One, But You Can Too
The easiest way to connect with your loved one or your own spirit guides is through your dreams. Dreams bring powerful spiritual messages. Before you go to bed, tell your loved one you desire to visit with them. Offering an invitation is all you need to do. When you least expect it, they will come to you. You will know because your dream of them is especially vivid, full of love and feel good as opposed to fear or dread. There is no mistaking your loved one has indeed come.
When you experience validation by a spirit while in a reading, it is enormously powerful to all who witness it. When a spirit comes through in a medium session it is profound. It not only provides validation of your ability to connect to the other side, but it is an indication that the work of Mediumship is for you.